Safety & Goal Planning
Be Prepared…
- Know where you can get help. Keep a list of important phone numbers (police, domestic violence hotline, hospital) with you.
- Plan with your children. Identify a safe place for them (room with a lock, neighbors house). Let them know that their job is to stay safe, not to protect you.
- Arrange a signal with a neighbor for when you need help.
- Prepare an emergency kit that you can get to quickly. (You may want to keep it at a trusted friend’s/neighbor’s house.) Include:
- extra set of car and house keys
- money, food stamps, checkbook, credit card(s), pay stubs
- birth certificates and other ID for you and your children
- your driver’s license or other photo identification
- Social Security card or green card/work permit
- health insurance cards, medications for you and your children
- deed or lease to your house or apartment
- any court papers or orders
- change of clothes for you and your children
- Plan the safest time to get away. Know which doors, windows, etc. provide escape. Practice with your children for an emergency.
- Get medical help and tell what happened. Ask them to document it.
- Have the doctor, nurse, or a friend take pictures of your injuries/bruises. Save any ripped or bloody clothes.
- Talk to someone about what you can do next.
Call our Hotline 1-866-202-5573
or
Text the word “Purple” to 94253
